It Is All Within You
Change your relationship with yourself; and your external relationships will follow
What do love, food, kids, sex, your body, your mind, significant others, your parents, and your work all have in common?
Answer - You are in relationship with them all!
It is a common mistake to become focused on the "outside issue." Do you spend way too much time ruminating over what to say, what angle to take or how to modify your behavior? Have these attempts met an eventual dead end? This is because the outside issue is a reflection, a symptom. Treating the symptom yields lackluster results. Treating the root cause is where healing and change happens. These "roots" are in you. If you want to change our relationship with anyone or anything, first you must explore your relationship with the different aspects of yourself. Change the relationship with yourself and positive things will follow.
